I sometimes can’t decide which aesthetic I like more — with our home, my clothes, this blog, etc. I want sparkles and eggshells; I want neons and neutrals; I want vintage and modern; I want chic and comfy; I want city and country… The list really does go on and on. Ergo, my latest dilemma: the black shoe. I love them both: The Miz Mooz Hipster is very masculine and the 3″ Ralph Lauren Zamora is super feminine. I can’t really buy either right now, so the point is moot — but I think it illustrates a larger personality flaw that factors into my nuts-o life.