Let me first qualify this post by saying, I know nothing about babies. Really. I’ve never been a baby person, nor have I spent any substantial time with them. We’re totally winging it over here.
We originally bought a two bedroom house (albeit a tiny one) because we envisioned having a guest/baby’s room (and in that order). I remember being pretty self-righteous and saying things like “Elch, why in the world do people dedicate an entire room to ‘kid-stuff’?!” I said it before, but it’s worth mentioning again, I know nothing.
Our approach to the monkey’s sleeping situation was not guided by any particular method, it was simply that we couldn’t decide on a crib. Between cost, design and our tiny space, I remember throwing my hands up in frustration and saying, “Why do we even need a crib?!” I was thinking about having just a day bed so that my mother (and other guests) could have an actual bed to sleep in. But again cost, design, and space were not intersecting. And I felt like I had time to decide since I knew he’d be sharing our room for the first part of his life.
I wasn’t sure how we would establish our family sleeping situation; I didn’t even know how I felt about it other than the extreme stereotypes represented in RomComs everywhere: Hippy-Dippy Family Beds whilst shunning vaccinations vs. ice-cold, detached robot parents who farm our raising their kids to a staff. Surely there were more options than this?! I implored the same approach we had with Heston’s impending arrival: we would just figure it out. We started by RENTING the most beautiful (and functional) bassinet, but my little guy didn’t do much sleeping in it (much to my disappointment.) And really, if I could have had my way, I think I would have preferred co-sleeping with H until he was
in college old enough. But by 7 months when we knew H could lay on his back without choking (and sort of roll over) we knew it was time to fish or cut bait. I felt like I had this window to transition him and this was it. Armed with some research and my sleep bible, we put Heston on a mattress on the floor.