Just like the first year was indescribable, the second was even more enigmatic. But thankfully a few days before Heston’s first birthday I discovered the app called 1 Second Everyday. And that’s just what I did. For Heston’s second trip around the sun, I filmed him, every day; and with modern-day magic, I turned it into a 6 min and 14 second video.
I wasn’t sure how I would feel at it’s completion, but a project like this is just up my alley. (A daily commitment, but just a tiny dose.) Sure, it’s a little creepy to think that I have an actual video of my child for every-day-of-his-life (hello future therapy problems!); however, I can’t believe how accurately it captured all the changes that occur from months 12-24. I get to see his first plane ride, first art installation exhibit, first word (Da-Da), first slide, first step(s), first emergency room, first play date, first lemon, first social protest, a few tantrums, tears, and so many giggles. Oh, and getting to watch that hair grow… *love* To my surprise (or not) I didn’t feel any nostalgia. Rather, I felt so much PRIDE and HOPE. We’ve come SO FAR!
I’ve boo-hooed my eyes out and still can’t stop watching. If you need a little 6 minute break, go ahead and boo-hoo right along with me and watch my son grow from 1 to 2.
As mentioned in my previous post, I really know nothing about babies. But I’m a quick learner. And one of my favorite -to-date parenting hacks: BLUETOOTH HEADPHONES.
Whether I’m out for a walk around the block or trying to not let the mind-numbing screeches of the Children’s Museum drive me to day-drink, my bluetooth headphones have saved the day. I’m not zoning out to ultra chill beats, but rather making my brain a little more wrinkled by listening to podcasts! These four have been in heavy rotation:
I know it seems counter-intuitive, but a new app has been helping me to zen out! Have you heard of calm.com? I’ve opened it when I’ve wanted just basic spa-like music while at a clients and I’ve used it for actual meditation. You can meditate on your own or use their guided meditations from 2 minutes to 20 minutes. You can also choose different visual scenes, anything from mountain brooks to rainforest leaves. (I of course will choose the ocean every time.) I’ve been genuinely surprised how much I use it…and like it! (The only thing not leaving me zen about the app is their font choice…glad there is not too much of it!)
I’ve been a little MIA from this space (and my other one). I’ve been wrapping up a couple of time-consuming clients and making a quick trip back to Michigan. We just returned home (late!) Sunday night (actually early Monday) from a 48 hour trip that felt like we squeezed in a months worth of activity. The main reason for our visit though — to meet our nephew. And we are hopelessly smitten with the little guy. We caught him at just the right baby stage: 10 weeks. Old enough to not be too floppy, but not yet teething or squirming. He was perfect. I tried to keep my cool around mom & pop, but really this is all I wanted to do!!!
I won’t be posting any pics of the little dude in this space (or any other public forum) respecting the wishes of his parents. It’s actually a decision I highly respect. Some time ago I (and his dad) read an article on a child’s digital footprint that they have no control over and subsequently how disturbing that can be for someone. (If I can find it, I’ll footnote it later.) So darling nephew, you will control your on-line fate once you are old enough (and your parents are ready). But it’s tough because that little nugget is SO CUTE! For now though, I’m just glad that we all have iPhones so that we can have our own private photo sharing with stream sharing.
For the last several weeks I have had one app open almost nonstop on my phone and/or computer: Songza! Goodbye Pandora, I have faithfully listened to you for at least 5 years, but your mixes don’t hold a candle to the concierge service on Songza. (Oh yeah.. and no ads!)
What I love the most about Songza is that you get to choose music by mood (or genre, or activity, or decade, or record store clerk!). And with stations with titles like: Lush Electronic Yoga,3am Airport, Sadcore Hibernation, Ride Around Shining, & High Heel Power Walk how could I not be intrigued.
Some stations in heavy rotation these days are: Indie Roots Rock, Solo Jazz Guitar, In the Euro Hotel Lounge, Singer-Songwriter Christmas, & Shredding The Slopes (for demo in the studio!). I have already discovered new music that will become a permanent part of my collection. Go download it right now!
Over the weekend, I read an interesting article about the art direction/marketing for a genetic testing company. Instead of leaning towards the super-sci-fi ( a la Minority Report) they went with the “I’m your friendly neighbor and, oh yeah, science is fun” approach. As soon as I saw it, I felt like it was something that I could easily find on Target shelves. (I’m not sure if that’s a praise or a slam…)
Here is one of their commercials:
And as I scrolled through their website, it reminded me (a lot) of the now discontinued Dr. Perricone SUPER products. A product whose packaging I really enjoyed.
So, ethical questions aside, I’m not sure if I’m their target audience (35-45 female) but they did indeed sucker me in with friendly, clean, colorful graphics and that chunky sans serif font — so who all wants a DNA test for a stocking stuffer this year?!
I have been enjoying perusing the winners of this year’s MacArthur Fellows. Per their website, “The MacArthur Fellows Program awards unrestricted $625,000 fellowships to talented individuals who have shown extraordinary originality and dedication in their creative pursuits and a marked capacity for self-direction.” These individuals, from ages 32-60, are quite inspiring — writers, scientists, and artists of all types make up this years’ recipients. Go take a gander…
We’ve recently changed up our Sunday morning routine — and I like it. The alarm goes off at 5:45 and the first thing I do after I manage to not fall crawl down the ladder is grab the radio remote and hit the power button as I stumble to the bathroom. After catching news highlights, one of my favorite new shows begins. It’s called On Being. Krista Tippett is the host and she’s moderating discussions on topics that typically don’t lend themselves to civility and grace. Per their website, “On Being is a spacious conversation — and an evolving media space — about the big questions at the center of human life, from the boldest new science of the human brain to the most ancient traditions of the human spirit.” It’s an hour-long program so we always miss the second half; but for the last 5 weeks I have gone home Sunday afternoon and downloaded the rest of the days discussion to continue to engage my own thoughts. I’ve even downloaded the podcast so I can listen to it during my long Monday morning commute. A show about meaningful things, delivered in a meaningful way… I’m in.
I spent part of the last two evenings writing a very long monologue about my thoughts & concerns on blogging. It’s a letter I’ve written several times before but never posted. And this time won’t be any different. But what I found surprising was just how much better I felt after having just focused my attention and actually gotten the words out. It reminded me of the instructions my mother would encourage when I had a problem with a friend, boyfriend, and later an employer, to “write it down and then sleep on it.” Still that advice rings true, even for something as trivial as blogging. After seeing things in the morning light, I have a new perspective. (See, this is why it’s best if I don’t ever join twitter!)